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darxus ([personal profile] darxus) wrote2010-02-18 09:07 pm

Communication is hard.

<Darxus>if ($hostcount % 1000 == 0 and time - $lasttime > 60) { $lasttime = time; &report(0); }
<Darxus>I really don't think that will ever be difficult for me to instantly grasp.
<revdiablo>Darxus: You might forget it was an optimization and think it's part of the algorithm
<Darxus>revdiablo: I really don't think so, but thanks for your concern.
<Darxus>And I *am* very concerned about future readability.
<ew73>revdiablo: Darxus is sort of an ass?
<Darxus>I swear I do not understand how I manage to offend people :/
<Darxus>I mean sometimes, sure. But for stating my confidence that I'll understand this if() in the future?
<revdiablo>Darxus: "Thanks for your concern" comes across sarcastic and snippy. Doesn't really bother me, but it could bother some.
<Darxus>It was sincere.
<Darxus>People are so fucking complicated to communicate with.
<Darxus>revdiablo: I appreciate the explanation.

And this was people who program for fun.

[identity profile] tisana.livejournal.com 2010-02-19 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
You're surprised? Communicating without tone or body language is tricky, and online communications have gotten increasingly snarky over the last few years, so yes, people assume something that may be sarcastic (as with most people, that phrase would be) is.

[identity profile] darxus.livejournal.com 2010-02-19 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
No, I'm not surprised. I know I unintentionally offend people all the time. I'm glad to have a better understanding of at least one reason. And... I don't like it.